What if you could create the ultimate digital dating life that draws in attractive women effortlessly, all from the comfort of your phone and in just 30 minutes a day?

Discover the step-by-step system that takes you from no dates on dating apps to connecting you with high-quality women in no time.

Total Value: $276

From the Desk of Harry Wilmington:

So, you’d like to do online & phone app dating? Awesome!

Dating via websites and phone apps are two of the best ways to meet smart, attractive women (including those would never run into in your day-to-day life), but doing it right can feel daunting:

  • Which sites or apps should you use?
  • What types of pictures are most effective?
  • How much should you reveal about yourself on your profile?
  • Once your profile is up, how do you get women to notice it?
  • What kinds of things are they looking for to make them choose you over somebody else?
  • Are you sending the kinds of messages that will increase her attraction?
  • And of course, how do you get them to say “yes” to a date?

I’m going to help you cut through the confusion – to not only learn how to present yourself online, but make sure you’re filling your weeknights with dozens of high-quality dates, too.

In Smart Digital Dating, I’ll walk you step-by-step through the entire process of creating a great online/phone app dating life.

With high-quality videos and examples along the way (taken from my real-life profiles and message streams that got me 3 to 5 dates a week), you’ll have your new profile up in no time, so you can start talking to more women the RIGHT way and delighting them on first dates.

Your potential mate is in the digital space waiting to meet you…

Hi, I’m Harry!

I started online dating back in 2007, and it took years of trying to figure out how to present myself online in a way that would get me dates with women I truly found attractive (vs. settling for whoever said “yes”).

After many failed attempts, I found what worked, what didn’t, and was able to successfully date women of all different nationalities, backgrounds, interests, etc.

How? By creating a rock-solid step-by-step digital dating system that will help you stand out from the thousands of other profiles women come across on these platforms.

I’ve coached many men who have asked for guidance in putting together their digital dating profiles – what pictures they should have; what to say in their profiles; what their first messages to women should be; and how to set up offline dates.

I created “Smart Digital Dating” to help you learn from my successes – and failures – so you, too, can be the breath of fresh air that women will be dying to say “YES” to!

Here’s What You’ll Learn

The meat of the course are the video lessons – 7 main video lessons that take you by the hand and give you the A to Z’s on everything from setting up your profile all the way to asking women on dates.

LESSON 1: Anatomy of a Dating App

  • Effortless App Setup: Discover the step-by-step guide to effortlessly download and sign up for dating apps, ensuring you waste no time and get straight to finding your match.
  • App Proficiency Unveiled: Explore real-world examples of how different dating apps function and the unique features they offer, so you can navigate them like a pro.
  • Supercharge Your Success: Delve into the world of paid options and unlock their potential in skyrocketing your match rate – we’ll show you which ones are the game-changers.
  • Precision in Matching: Learn the art of selecting the perfect radius for your matches, ensuring you connect with potential partners who are just the right distance away.
  • Swipe Like a Pro: Master the mechanics of swiping and matching on dating apps, ensuring you make the most out of every swipe you make.
  • Instant Connection Awareness: Gain insights into how to know the moment you’ve matched with someone, so you can take that crucial next step towards building a meaningful connection.

LESSON 2: Posting Smart Digital Pictures

  • Picture Perfect Profile: Discover the ideal number of pictures to showcase on your profile for maximum impact and attraction.
  • Avoiding Picture Pitfalls: Gain insights into what constitutes “bad pictures” and understand the elements that turn women off, ensuring your profile exudes only the most appealing qualities.
  • Irresistible Personal Branding: Learn the art of crafting a magnetic personal brand on dating apps, designed to make more women desire and be drawn to you.
  • Strategic Image Selection: Explore the essential questions to ask yourself before posting certain pictures, ensuring that each image you share portrays you in the best possible light.
  • Living the Exciting Life: Discover how to project an image of living a life that women will be eager to become a part of, creating a sense of excitement and intrigue around you.
  • Pictures that Spark Pursuit: Uncover the secret behind selecting pictures that prompt women to initiate contact with you first, putting you in the position of being chased rather than replaced.

LESSON 3: Creating a
Smart Digital Bio

  • Bio Blunders to Avoid: Learn about the common mistakes that can sabotage your profile, including one that can instantly lead to rejection by women.
  • Stand Out in Seconds: Discover the secrets to making your bio stand out from the competition, ensuring your profile catches the eye and leaves a lasting impression.
  • Unveiling Women’s Desires: Gain insights into what women truly look for when reading your bio, hinting that it’s not just about a specific detail, but an overall impression.
  • Bio Mastery: Explore bio “hacks” that not only make your profile more readable but also increase the likelihood of a quick “yes” decision from women, resulting in more right swipes.
  • Bio Style Selection: Uncover the six different types of effective bio styles that the most successful men on dating apps use consistently, so you can choose the one that suits you best.
  • Profile Breakdown: Get an in-depth analysis of 12 different men’s profiles, understanding what makes them effective and how you can use elements from these profiles as blueprints for crafting your own bio.

LESSON 4: How Women Experience Dating Apps

  • Cracking the Discrimination Code: Uncover the reasons why women tend to be more selective in their choices when it comes to phone app dating, giving you invaluable insights into their mindset.
  • Understanding Her Motivation: Learn why women join dating apps in the first place, revealing motivations that might surprise you and providing a deeper understanding of what they’re looking for.
  • Messaging Dynamics: Discover a surprising statistic that explains why women often wait for you to make the first move, even though they’re statistically inclined to initiate contact.
  • Gendered Challenges and Advantages: Explore the unique positives and negatives that women face on dating apps compared to men, shedding light on their distinct experiences.
  • Navigating the Digital Dating Journey: Gain access to a comprehensive flow chart that maps out a woman’s digital dating experience, helping you understand why some women steer clear or express frustration.
  • The Ultimate Turn-Off: Learn about the number one character trait that most men display online, which repels women. Avoiding this one thing instantly puts you ahead of 97% of men.
  • Triggering Positive Responses: Discover the secret to making women want to respond to you, even if you’re not the stereotypical “hottest” guy – it’s all about showing them a specific quality, and they’ll be eager to engage with you.

LESSON 5: Sending Smart Digital Messages

  • Messaging Mastery: Discover the top messaging mistakes to avoid, some of which are subtle but can significantly impact your chances of success.
  • Unlocking Her Response: Learn message “hacks” that can lower her guard and ignite excitement, making her eager to respond to your messages.
  • Creative Conversation Starters: Find out how to effortlessly craft creative yet relatable openers with her input, ensuring your messages stand out in the sea of generic greetings.
  • When She Makes the First Move: Gain insights into how to respond and take control of the conversation when she messages you first, ensuring the interaction flows smoothly.
  • Keeping It Engaging: Explore techniques for building and maintaining an exciting and fresh conversation, keeping her engaged and interested.
  • Mastering Timing: Learn the art of timing your responses to convey interest without appearing needy, striking the right balance to keep the connection alive.
  • Troubleshooting Insights: Gain a deeper understanding of what it means when she’s not asking questions or responds slowly, and learn how to address these situations in a positive manner.
  • Optimal Message Length: Discover the secret to keeping your messages lively and engaging without veering into rambling territory, making the conversation enjoyable for both parties.
  • Goals and Anticipation: Remember the ultimate goal when talking to women on these apps, and discover how to build anticipation to create a sense of excitement and connection.


  • Effortless Date Requests: Unlock the simple 5-step process to asking for dates that practically guarantees you get “yeses” and ensures you stand out as one of the few who take the initiative.
  • Overcoming Assumptions: Discover the number one assumption men make that often prevents them from asking for dates and learn why it’s crucial to break free from this mindset.
  • Perfect Timing and Transition: Gain the secret to knowing when and how to smoothly transition into asking her out in a natural and effortless way.
  • Foolproof Date Request: Access the “date request” blueprint, a meticulously designed template based on personal dating experiences, ensuring you make your pitch with expertise.
  • Choosing the Ideal Date Location: Learn how to decide where to take her and, critically, why you should never do this ONE thing when planning the date.
  • Mastering Date Confirmation: Discover when to reconfirm the date (and when not to) to prevent flaking and increase her anticipation for the upcoming date.
  • Psychological Persuasion: Explore a sneaky psychological trick that leverages the “Illusion of Choice” to practically guarantee she agrees to meet up with you.
  • Post-Request Necessity: Uncover the one thing you absolutely must do immediately after making your date request to ensure you don’t inadvertently talk her out of the date.

LESSON 6.1: Real Life Examples of The “Date Request” Template in Action

  • Real-Life Conversations: Gain exclusive access to actual message interactions with various women that successfully led to first dates, providing you with practical examples to learn from.
  • Mastering Date Scheduling: Get a visual guide on how to effectively negotiate days and times for dates, ensuring you can plan meetups with confidence.
  • Comprehensive Learning: Enjoy the added value of 4 downloadable PDFs that accompany the lessons, including:
    • Creating the Perfect Bio: A set of thought-provoking questions to help you generate ideas for your profile, ensuring you present yourself in the best possible light.
    • 1st Messages that WOW: Scripted conversation starters that have proven to capture women’s attention and generate responses.
    • Template for Asking Her Out In 5 Easy Steps: A practical and easy-to-follow template for making the crucial move of asking her out.
    • Dating App Messages I Sent to Women That Got Me Dates: A collection of actual conversations with various women that led to successful first dates, offering real-world insights into effective messaging.

Total Value: $276


In addition to the main course videos, you’ll also get 4 bonus video lessons teaching you digital dating “hacks,” highlighting key differences between using dating apps vs. websites, mapping out exactly how to set up your online dating profile online; plus an audio interview with a female online dater giving the woman’s perspective of what they’re looking at from you on the apps!


  • Unlock Confidence and Success: Discover a proven strategy to approach online dating with confidence, reducing anxiety, and increasing your practicality to attract more women.
  • Strategic Timing for Maximum Matches: Learn the insider’s secret on when to use the app during the week to skyrocket your match rates.
  • Invest Wisely for Visibility: Find out which in-app purchases are your ticket to boosting your profile’s visibility and standing out in the crowded dating world.
  • Swipe Right Every Time: Master the art of crafting irresistible “swipe-bait” that will have women swiping right on your profile like never before.
  • Create Irresistible Desirability: Gain insights on how to paint a vivid picture of a compelling future together, making her choose you faster and more eagerly.
  • Optimize Algorithm Attraction: Uncover the one thing you must avoid to make the app’s algorithm consistently present you with more attractive potential matches.
  • Ignite Conversational Chemistry: Learn a playful conversation trick that compels her to “qualify” herself to you, boosting your chances of securing that sought-after date.


  • App vs. Online Dating: Learn about the key difference between phone apps and online dating and how it impacts your dating strategy.
  • Matching Methods: Understand how the “matching” system varies between apps and online dating platforms.
  • Profile Setup: Find out why you can use more words when setting up your profile online compared to on apps.
  • Relationships Advantage: Discover the number one reason why online dating is often associated with people seeking serious relationships and how you can leverage this to your benefit.


  • Profile Templates for Success: Explore sample templates of online profiles that are based on my own setups on two highly popular platforms.
  • Unlock Functionality Insights: Gain explanations of the different functions available on these platforms to support you in your journey to find women through online dating.


  • Refining Your Search: Discover how to narrow down your search on dating platforms to find the specific kinds of women you’re looking for.
  • Spotting Real Profiles: Learn how to differentiate between genuine and fake profiles, as well as active versus inactive members.
  • Profile Insights: Find out what to look for in their profile bios to understand their personality and determine if they are likely to be positive or negative individuals.
  • Maximizing Compatibility: Explore how paid options can enhance your chances of connecting with women who are highly compatible with you.

audio bonus 1: an interview with a female online dater

In this exclusive interview, we bring you insights from “Sarah,” a seasoned woman in the world of digital dating. Tune in as we delve into the intriguing female dating journey on the worldwide web.

Discover the “why” behind their choice to date online and gain a deep understanding of the challenges they confront. Explore what women are really seeking when browsing men’s profiles, what ignites their interest, and what causes a quick swipe left. Get the inside scoop on how they scrutinize your pictures and their true feelings about those muscle-flexing snapshots.

Unearth the factors that spark their curiosity and drive them to make the first move. Learn which conversation topics and introductions should be avoided at all costs, and gain valuable insights on enhancing attraction during your interactions.

Prepare to be shocked by the surprising number of messages they need before feeling ready to take the next step. Plus, get a firsthand look at examples of messages that should never grace your keyboard.

This bonus interview is your ticket to understanding the female perspective in the world of online dating. Don’t miss out on this valuable opportunity to improve your dating game!

audio bonus 2: an interview with a female online dater

This audio guide provides further straightforward tips and techniques to help you create an irresistible online presence.


  • Photo Aesthetics Demystified: We’ll unravel the secrets of photo aesthetics, showing you how to capture images that truly shine, regardless of your photography experience.

  • What Girls Seek in Your Photos: Gain a clear understanding of what girls are searching for in your pictures. Discover how to convey your best self through your photos, sparking genuine interest.

  • Grooming for Success: Learn how to groom yourself to attract the kind of girl you desire. We’ll offer practical grooming tips that can make a big difference in your dating profile.

  • Mastering the Solo Photo Shoot: Uncover the secrets of a successful solo photo shoot, including tools you can easily use. Say goodbye to awkward selfies and hello to captivating photos.

  • Types of Winning Shots: Get acquainted with the types of shots that make an impact. We’ll guide you through the art of candid moments, well-composed portraits, and more.

  • Affordable Styling: Discover where to find affordable clothes that look great on camera. Elevate your style without breaking the bank, ensuring you look your best in your photos.

Total Value: $276


How long do I have access to the course?

You will have lifetime access to the course, including any updates to videos or bonuses.

What equipment/tools will I need to complete the course?

In this course, you will need a phone and a computer… and that’s about it. We will walk you through some of the most popular and effective digital dating apps and websites, some of which may have upgrades that cost money but aren’t needed to be successful.

What do I do if I need help?

If you have a question related to the course, email [email protected]

How long is the course?

For best results, plan to take about one month to complete the course and implement all the content into your digital dating life. There are 11 videos and 1 audio bonuses totaling over 4 hours of content, plus bonus PDFs to fill out. Most videos averaging around 18-22 minutes, with the shortest being around 15 minutes and the longest being 34 minutes; the audio bonuses range from 16 to 27 minutes.

What is the payment process?

Easy! Click the button on this page to go to checkout. There, you’ll be asked to fill out your information, credit-card or PayPal information (all processed securely via PayHip.com) and create a name and password. Once you’ve completed the order, you’ll have instant access to the course!

What if I am unhappy with the course?

Oh no! We don’t want that! We offer a 30-day money-back guarantee. If you are unhappy with the course for any reason, let us know and we will refund your payment within 30 days. (Note: After the 30 days, refunds will not be accepted for any reason.)

When does the course start and finish?

Once you have enrolled, you have ongoing access. This course is self-paced and you may take as long as you need to complete it.


Digital dating changed the way I meet women forever – and I know it can change yours, too. It’s an incredible way to connect with women outside your circle, build new relationships, and increase your self-esteem.

My “Smart Digital Dating” course walks you through the entire process of creating your new digital life and succeeding with dating. Join today, and see just how much your new kick-ass digital dating skills can do for your love life.

Total Value: $276