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This 10-point checklist is built on one simple premise: on average, it takes a woman 3 months to solidify her feelings for you and be ready for a relationship.

Most men are ready to get in a relationship with a woman after 2 or 3 good dates; meanwhile, women need more time to “feel” if you’re the right guy for them for a variety of reasons. Therefore, it is critical that you do not bring up any kind of “relationship talk” within those first 3 months of dating.

If she happens to bring it up after the first few dates, great! It means her attraction is very high. Still, in order to have a better chance of fully solidifying her feelings, trust, and having a relationship last long-term, avoid putting the “relationship” title on your interactions with her until month 3.

During this 3-month period, it’s also important to not spend every single waking hour of the day interacting with her. Things like trying to see her every day or texting her nonstop may seem like faster ways to bond with her, but it can actually make her feelings for you burn out within of a couple of weeks.

With all that said: what follows is the dating template my clients and I have used time and time again to attract women, increase feelings of comfort and trust, have them craving more of your attention, and wanting to claim YOU as their man. Good luck!



First, you have to meet a woman. This may be by cold-approaching, meeting her through friends, or online dating. (In my full program, I show you 3 different ways to approach women that generates instant interest from them, and will put your nerves at ease.)


Spend a decent amount of time talking and getting to know what she’s about, finding out her likes/dislikes, making her laugh, and seeing if the vibe is there for potential future interactions. (In my full program, you’ll learn what things to talk about that get women excited about you AND possible future meet ups!)


If you met her in person, get her phone number (there’s a certain way you can get any woman to do this without hesitation, which I teach in my program). Wait a day or two, then reach out to her and ask her on a date. YOU make the plans – do not ask her what she wants to do. Keep it simple though – no big concerts or vacations, pal! (In my new program, I give you a simple step-by-step method of getting a “YES” anytime you ask a woman out, and which date days work the best.)

If you met her online, ask her for the date in the chat. (Not sure how long to message a woman before asking her out? My new program includes a bonus that details the exact right time to do this so she’s more than ready to meet you offline.)


Always have at least 5 different ideas ready for places you can take her on a date. (In my full program, you’ll learn the kind of dates that really help set a great foundation for a potential relationship – and no, they won’t break your wallet).

During the date, spend a decent amount of time talking and getting to know what she’s about, finding out her likes/dislikes, making her laugh, and seeing if the vibe is there for potential future interactions. (In my full program, you’ll learn what things to talk about that get women excited about you AND possible future meet ups!)


In between each date is “Waiting to Contact Her” period. During this time, you do not initiate contact with her. (In my program, I explain what the minimal “no contact period” should be, what her mind is going through when you do this, and how it affects her feelings for you.) If she initiates contact first, set up the next date with her a minimum of 2 days in the future; otherwise, wait a few days before asking her for another date.


As she starts to like you more, she will suggest more frequent meet-ups and dating ideas of her own. Until this happens, continue only setting up 1 date during the week. IMPORTANT: Her setting up extra dates should not be counted towards your 12-week goal. Also, during these first 3 months, keep time spent together to no more than 3 days a week max.


You want to end the first or second date with a kiss. This simple move will let you know if she has an attraction towards you or not. If she gives you the cheek, move on. If she kisses you back, continue asking for dates. (In the program, I give you a secret strategy that makes more women comfortable with kissing you, even if they weren’t sure they wanted to before.)


Your job is to INITIATE moves that signal your physical interest, ANALYZE how she reacts, and RESPOND with escalation or pull-back. The more comfortable you make her feel, and the more you make sex feel like her decision, the quicker “bedroom fun” will happen. (My program shows how to escalate in an easy, natural way – for now, really focus on building comfort.)


By month 2 or 3, she should be hinting at wanting the “girlfriend” title. LISTEN for hints that signal a desired relationship (ex. “What are we?”). IMPORTANT: Until she starts giving hints, DO NOT TALK ABOUT IT. Let HER bring up being in a relationship first. (I go into more detail about all the hints women will give AND how to respond in my full program.)


At the 3 month mark, if you want to be in a relationship with this woman, have “the conversation.” There are various things you may want to consider talking about and negotiating before agreeing to give her the “girlfriend” title (I go over this in more detail in my full program), but assuming both you and her want to be together, you agree with it by stating you’re willing to try it out.

Now you know how to pace out your dating schedule to increase your chances at getting your next date to the “Relationship Finish Line.”

But you may still have other issues when it comes to attracting women, being a more confident dater, and handling certain situations when they arise.

Let me ask you a few questions:


  • Are you tired of feeling frustrated and alone, unable to catch the attention of the women you desire?
  • Do you struggle with anxiety and stumble over your words when approaching an attractive woman?
  • Has your sex life become dull and unfulfilling, leaving you longing for more?
  • Have you ever missed out on the opportunity to approach a woman you liked because you were too scared of rejection?
  • Do you dread the thought of navigating the “getting to know each other” phase of dating?
  • And most importantly, do you wish you had the power to create an irresistible chemistry with any woman you desire while staying true to your introverted nature? Imagine her chasing after you, begging for intimacy, passion, or a committed relationship?

You’re Not Alone!

Have you said any of these things before?


  • “I’m too shy and introverted to approach women, and I’m afraid of rejection.”
  • “I struggle to keep a conversation going and make a connection with women.”
  • “I worry that women won’t be interested in me because I’m not outgoing and extroverted.”
  • “I feel like I have to pretend to be someone I’m not to impress women and it’s exhausting.”
  • “I don’t know how to show my interest in women without coming off as creepy or desperate.”
  • “I’m afraid that women will think I’m boring or uninteresting because I don’t enjoy partying and socializing as much as other guys.”
  • “I’m worried that I’ll never find someone who understands and appreciates my introverted personality.”


As a men’s dating coach for the past 19 years, I’ve helped countless men overcome these exact same issues.


I used to struggle with dating myself, thinking that I needed to be a “bad boy” to attract women. I had low self-confidence and had a hard time building meaningful relationships. Sound familiar?

Maybe you’ve found yourself in the friend zone too often, or struggled to make conversation in social situations. Maybe you’ve had trouble securing a second date or making a move at the end of a successful one. You might even feel like something is inherently wrong with you, or that you’re destined to live a life of loneliness.

But I’m here to tell you that none of that is true!

Through years of trial and error, I discovered that women don’t necessarily fall for a specific type of guy – they fall for a guy with the right strategy.

After making some key adjustments to my dating approach and becoming more comfortable with my introverted nature, my dating results improved significantly. In just a few years, I went from struggling to get a date with anyone, settling for unattractive women, to dating some of the most stunning and accomplished women across all professions.

Regardless of their income or attractiveness, I found that once I understood how to stimulate a woman’s emotional, physical, and mental triggers, as well as mastered the timing and location of certain actions during the dating process, I could easily attract the women I desired.

And the good news is that you can achieve the same level of success by gaining confidence in who you are, embracing your hidden introverted strengths, and learning how to communicate and act in ways that awaken a woman’s deepest, primal desires. In no time, you could have women eager to be with you without needing to say much at all.

By learning how to become more confident in yourself, discovering your hidden seductive introvert powers, and focusing on the right things to say and do to unlock her deepest desires, you can have women practically begging to be with you. It’s all about understanding the emotional, physical, and mental buttons to press within a woman’s psychological core, and the precise timing of when and where to do certain things during the dating process.

So if you’re tired of feeling frustrated and alone, let me help you unlock your true potential and attract the women you truly desire.

Imagine a world where approaching women becomes second nature to you.


You see a girl, and you know exactly what to say…

…how to make her laugh…

…and how to leave her eagerly waiting to hear from you again.

You have the power to capture her heart and make her beg for your attention.

But this is not just a fantasy; it can be your reality with my help. I’ve helped men just like you to unleash their full potential and empower their dating lives with life-changing knowledge.

Together, we can transform your dating life and help you:

  • Overcome your approach anxiety and confidently approach any woman you desire
  • Develop the traits of a “Masculine Alpha” that women are irresistibly drawn to, even the high-quality 10s you never thought you had a chance with
  • Build deep, long-lasting connections with the women of your choosing that lead to passionate nights of pure ecstasy
  • And best of all, remain the strong, attractive, and masculine introvert that women dream of being with

Don’t waste another day feeling stuck and frustrated in your dating life. Let me guide you on a journey that will transform you into the confident and irresistible man you were always meant to be.

INTROVERT DATING SUCCESS is a coaching program created for intelligent, accomplished, introverted men like you to help improve your dating confidence and techniques, so you can achieve success in your personal, dating and romantic life.

With years of research and trial-and-error under our belt, we offer a comprehensive program that will boost your dating confidence and techniques in no time.

Say goodbye to feeling lost or unsure in social situations with women – our effective methods will give you the tools to socialize with any woman, in any setting, while staying true to who you are.

INTROVERT DATING SUCCESS is a step-by-step guide that leaves nothing out. We will transform your dating process, enabling you to succeed with women naturally and effortlessly.

Imagine a life filled with intimacy, love, connection, and steamy, passionate nights – it’s all within reach with INTROVERT DATING SUCCESS.


INTROVERT DATING SUCCESS is the ultimate program designed to help you become the confident, successful dater you’ve always wanted to be. Our unique combination of live coaching, email support, and video modules will guide you through every step of the dating process and ensure you achieve the results you desire.

Here’s what you’ll get when you enroll:


Get the private coaching you need to succeed with our monthly one-hour coaching calls. Together, we’ll review your progress, discuss next steps, and work through any challenges you’re facing. These sessions are recorded and emailed to you, so you can listen back and track your progress over time.

Our coaching is so effective that one student raves:

“I wanted to tell you how awesome your Introvert dating success program has been… Our weekly calls really feel like therapy more than anything. Most of what you’ve said during those sessions felt like I knew the answer already but I needed to hear it laid out from someone else, for it to sink in. I’ve tried a few therapy sessions about this stuff and it did nothing for me. I’d rather pay you than a therapist any day.”

These sessions are in addition to our monthly group calls, where everyone in the program gathers together twice a month and I answer any questions that are on your mind.



Get the support you need whenever you need it with our unlimited email support. Whether you have questions about a girl you’re talking to or just want to show off your new outfit, we’re here to listen and help.

Our responses are always personalized and detailed, ensuring you get the guidance you need to succeed. As one student put it:

“I appreciate the detailed notes on my emails – no other coach I’ve used before does that.”



Are you tired of feeling shy and awkward around women? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. I’ve personally coached hundreds of men, from the extremely shy to those who just lack social skills, to become confident daters who attract women effortlessly.

I’ve identified the two biggest challenges that most men face when it comes to dating: a lack of confidence and a lack of a clear plan. These two issues are closely linked – the better your plan, the more confident you will feel approaching women and the more successful you’ll be.

That’s why I’ve created 12 video training modules that are specifically designed to help you become a confident dater as an introvert. By enrolling in my Introvert Dating Success program, you’ll have instant access to these modules, which are packed with practical lessons and strategies that you can apply right away.


Here’s a quick look into what’s included in each video module:

MODULE 1: 6 Important Mind-Shift Changes a guy MUST Make Before he Starts Dating

  • Transforming your mindset to be ready for a successful relationship
  • Harness the power of mind tricks to overcome negative dating thoughts
  • Unlock the 6 fundamental shifts in thinking about dating that will significantly enhance your chances of finding a fulfilling relationship

MODULE 2: Meeting Women & The Proper Sequence to Get Phone Numbers

  • The top 4 places where you’re likely to have success approaching women as an introvert
  • Unlock a simple, yet highly effective technique to naturally transition into a conversation with ANY woman you want
  • Master the art of timing: How long to talk to her before asking for her number and when to leave her wanting more
  • Learn a proven conversation tactic that will make her WANT to give you her phone number – no more awkward requests!

MODULE 3: Effective Phone Etiquette + How to Get Her to Say “YES” To The Date

  • Proactively setting up the date for success by having a few things prepared before asking her out, so she can see you’re a thoughtful guy who cares about the details.
  • A proven step-by-step sequence for asking her out that includes my “option-choosing” technique, which dramatically increases your chances of getting a YES.
  • A subtle yet powerful tweak in how you ask for the date that taps into the psychology of decision-making in women.
  • The ideal days to ask her out (and which days to avoid at all costs), because timing matters more than you might think!

MODULE 4: 1st Date Blueprint (How to Master it Like a BOSS)

  • Look your best for the first date – discover the appearance-related factors that will impress her (and it’s not just about your clothes)
  • The 3 critical objectives of the first date – keep these in mind during the date to ensure your success
  • The ultimate blueprint for the first date – a step-by-step plan that guides you from the moment you meet to the end of the night
  • Date conversation secrets – learn the topics that will ignite her interest and the ones to avoid at all costs
  • The perfect way to wrap up the date that will make her crave more of you (no need to say “I hope to see you again,” we’ve got you covered)

MODULE 5: Analyzing the 1st Date So You Know Where Her Feelings Stand.

  • The critical 3 factors of the first date that you must analyze to determine where you stand with her
  • The 6 key actions to observe from her during the date that will give you an unmistakable picture of her level of interest
  • A simple but effective technique to compare her with other girls you’re dating and find out who’s the best fit for you
  • How to identify “red flags” and what they reveal about her potential as a girlfriend

MODULE 6: The Secret to Raising Her Interest Level In-Between Dates

  • Discover the 5 BIGGEST mistake most introverts make after a date and why it can ruin your chances of winning her over. 
  • Unlock the secret to timing your follow-up call and asking for that next date. You’ll be surprised by how effective this simple tweak can be!
  • Learn how doing this ONE thing can backfire and actually decrease her interest level in you. I’ll explain the impression you give off when you’re doing this and how it can hurt your chances.
  • Believe it or not, sometimes NOT contacting her can actually raise her interest level in you. We’ll delve into the psychology behind this phenomenon, and reveal what’s really going on in her mind when you’re not around.

MODULE 7: The 2nd Date Blueprint (And How to Ace That 1st Kiss)

  • The crucial elements that make the 2nd date different from the 1st, and the perfect duration for maximum impact.
  • A stealthy technique that naturally creates a physical connection, causing her to let her guard down and open up to you.
  • The key trait she’s seeking in you that will make or break her decision to take things to the next level. Follow this simple tip to build trust with her.
  • The secret topic to discuss during the date that can make her willingly come up to your place at the end of the night. You won’t even have to ask!
  • My proven goodnight kiss technique that never fails to land on the lips and leave her wanting more. No more cheek kisses!

MODULE 8: Repetition, Repetition, Repetition…

  • Discover the #1 reason  men fail to keep a woman’s interest after the first date or hookup, and learn the crucial steps to take to avoid this happening to you.
  • Find out which privileges you should steer clear of giving women too early in the dating process, to prevent them from losing interest in you altogether.
  • Learn the truth about how long women typically take to become your girlfriend, and why this period can actually benefit you in the long run.
  • Stop worrying about verbalizing your feelings! Discover how to communicate your interest without saying a word, using a simple yet powerful technique.
  • Discover the behaviors to consistently exhibit to maintain her interest and make her desire to distinguish herself from other women you might be seeing.

MODULE 9: Milestones that Signal Relationship Progression

  • Check out these 12 major milestones to either identify or create during the first 3 months of dating.
  • Learn why physical intimacy is important, what it signifies, and how not to let it distract you from the overall plan.
  • Find out why her disagreeing with you can be a good sign of her interest in you.
  • Use our benchmark guide to determine where her feelings for you should be at each major anniversary, so you can gauge her interest level accurately.

MODULE 10: How to Stand Your Ground When Conflict Arises (Without Losing Her)

  • Discover the REAL reasons why women test the men they want to be with – and why you should actually be grateful when she does it to you
  • The critical qualities women evaluate in you during conflicts – and how lacking them could cost you your relationship
  • Learn how to handle the different types of conflicts that arise in relationships, with real-life examples to help you apply the techniques
  • 10 proven strategies to pass her tests and navigate conflicts successfully, including my #1 tip for dating and life in general

MODULE 11: 10 Signs She’s Ready to Become the Girlfriend (And How to React)

  • Discover the biggest mistake introverts make when it comes to having the “relationship talk” and how to avoid it altogether
  • The secret to getting her to bring up the topic of a relationship without any pressure or awkwardness from you
  • Uncover what’s really going on in her mind as you approach the 3 month mark and how you can leverage this to progress the relationship forward
  • 10 passive signals she’ll send your way that indicate she’s ready to become your girlfriend, including one subtle question that should be your cue to take action
  • Learn the right way to react to these signals and how to lead the conversation in a way that leaves her wanting to commit to you

MODULE 12: Negotiating Your Relationship Needs Before Saying “YES!”

  • Master the art of negotiating your relationship needs before jumping into something that may or may not be a good fit for you
  • The importance of not just saying “yes” to her when she asks for a relationship and taking the time to establish the pace of the relationship together
  • Key negotiation questions and topics to bring up during the talk to ensure that both parties are on the same page
  • How to address any potential deal-breakers in a respectful and effective manner without trying to change her
  • Discover the power of accepting her request for a relationship in a way that not only gives her the girlfriend title but also motivates her to work hard to impress and keep you around.

Who is the Introvert Dating Success course for?

This course is designed for introverted men who have had difficulty forming connections with women and desire to improve themselves to become confident, powerful, and attractive individuals who can effortlessly transition into fulfilling relationships.

Additionally, if you have the ability to meet women and set up dates but struggle to progress beyond the first or second date, or have difficulty building genuine interest from your partner, this course is also for you.



Who is the Introvert Dating Success course NOT for?

This course is not for those who expect a quick solution to their dating problems. It requires dedication and effort to improve your dating life.

Moreover, if you’re seeking to manipulate or deceive women, this course is not for you. Our goal is to equip you with skills to establish genuine connections and treat women with respect, not to exploit or hurt them.



The INTROVERT DATING SUCCESS course offers far more than just a way to improve your dating life. It’s an investment in your personal growth and long-term happiness.

Think about the cost of not knowing how to attract and maintain a relationship with high-quality women. The amount of money spent on unsuccessful dates, gifts for the wrong person, or even legal fees from a divorce can be astronomical.

With this course, you’ll learn how to confidently and naturally connect with women and create a deep emotional bond and sexual tension that will change your life forever.

This course is not just about dating better but becoming a bold, confident man that any woman would be proud to have by her side.

And it’s not just about finding a date, it’s about learning how to make a lasting, meaningful connection with the woman of your dreams.

With the INTROVERT DATING SUCCESS coaching course, you’ll discover how to showcase your uniqueness as an introvert in the most effective way and make easy, natural connections with women that fit your personality type.

The Premium INTROVERT DATING SUCCESS coaching program offers 12 life-changing video lessons, 12 monthly 1-on-1 phone calls, and unlimited email correspondence for up to 1 year. At only $3000, this investment in yourself is a no-brainer for anyone serious about changing their dating life and achieving long-term happiness.


When you join the INTROVERT DATING SUCCESS program you’ll not only get access to the 12 comprehensive video modules, but for a LIMITED TIME you’ll also receive this exclusive bonus content designed to help you succeed on dating apps.

The SMART DIGITAL DATING video bonus course contains 11 videos packed with valuable information that will help you choose the right pictures for your profile, create an attention-grabbing biography, and learn what messages to send to women that will get their attention.

With my personal experience and expertise, you’ll gain a better understanding of how women experience dating apps and what they’re looking for in a potential partner. You’ll learn how to create an online dating profile that showcases your unique personality, highlights your strengths, and attracts the right kind of women.

As if that wasn’t enough, I’ll also schedule time to personally help you create a brand new online dating profile that will help to increase your match rate.

The strategies taught in the SMART DIGITAL DATING video bonus course are the same ones I used to get dates when I was navigating the online dating world, and I have my message examples included in the program to show you exactly how to apply them. I’ve also taught these strategies to my friends, many of whom are now in relationships or married to the person they met online thanks to my help.

PICTURE: Me at my friend’s wedding, 18 months after I helped create an online dating app profile that led to a lifelong match.

With the SMART DIGITAL DATING video bonus course, you’ll gain valuable insights and techniques that will give you a significant advantage in the world of online dating. You’ll be able to approach online dating with confidence, knowing that you have the skills and knowledge to succeed. 



I want to emphasize the importance of commitment when it comes to the INTROVERT DATING SUCCESS course. This program is designed for those who are truly dedicated to improving their dating life and are ready to put in the necessary effort to achieve their goals.

That’s why the course is priced higher than other dating programs out there. It’s not just a set of videos or a few tips and tricks. It’s a comprehensive coaching program that includes personalized one-on-one phone calls and unlimited email correspondence for 12 weeks.

It’s a significant investment in yourself, and it shows your commitment to your personal growth. As such, I only want you to join if you’re a serious student who’s ready to put in the work to make their dating life better.

The truth is, real change doesn’t happen overnight. It takes dedication, perseverance, and a willingness to step out of your comfort zone. But the good news is, with the right guidance and effort, you can achieve the results you desire.

So, if you’re ready to take the necessary steps to become the confident, successful man you want to be, I encourage you to apply for the INTROVERT DATING SUCCESS course. This program is for those who are willing to commit to themselves and their personal growth. Let’s work together to create the dating life you’ve always dreamed of.



12 months of once-a-month coaching calls with me, plus twice-a-month group calls, all sessions recorded.


One full year of unlimited email access. Share your progress; ask questions; gain clarifcation.


Learn the step-by-step method for building attraction as your authentic self… and still get your alone time.


LIMITED TIME BONUS: Get a jump start on dating by learning the ins and outs of matching with women on dating apps.

Enrollment is $3,000.


“How is THE INFORMATION IN THIS PROGRAM different from the information you post on social media?”

I do my best to provide quality content for everyone I come in contact with because I truly care about your dating success. However, the information on my social media pages can only scratch the surface of what’s needed to achieve lasting results.

That’s why I’ve created a comprehensive coaching program that provides personalized guidance based on your unique situation and goals.

Unlike the free resources on my page, my program dives deep into analytical and individualized dating preparation. I have poured my heart, soul, and expertise into creating an easy-to-follow guide that covers all aspects of dating, from building confidence to developing effective communication skills.

I have done all the hard work of researching and streamlining the dating prep process, so you can focus on enjoying the journey to lasting love.

In addition to the program materials, you’ll have direct access to me once a month via our 1-on-1 calls and twice a month via our group sessions to continue learning together and receive answers to any questions you may have.

With INTROVERT DATING SUCCESS, you’ll have the support and guidance you need to transform your dating life and find the lasting love and connection you desire.


“What can I do to ensure I get the dating results I’m desiring from this program?”

Invest in yourself and commit to the program. This is a comprehensive program that provides a lot of valuable information to help you improve your dating life.

To ensure you get the best results, it’s important to watch all the videos and complete the exercises and bonus materials. Joining the group coaching calls with me and other program participants will also enhance your experience and allow you to ask questions.

If you take the program seriously, stay on track with the material, and attend the coaching calls, you will see a significant transformation in your dating confidence and success.



I have priced this INTROVERT DATING SUCCESS Coaching Program to be as affordable as possible while still providing comprehensive and high-quality dating education for introverted men. It includes personalized coaching, program materials that have been developed and refined over the years, and access to a private community of like-minded individuals.

While I currently don’t offer discounts, I have designed this program to be a valuable investment in yourself and your dating life. By committing to the program and engaging fully with the materials and coaching, you will gain the skills and confidence you need to achieve your dating goals. Plus, with lifetime access to the program, you’ll always have the support and resources you need to continue improving your dating life.


“Do You Offer a Money Back Guarantee?”

If you’re considering investing in my INTROVERT DATING SUCCESS course, I want to be transparent and let you know that I do not offer a money-back guarantee. However, I want to emphasize that the course content and community have been designed to help introverted men succeed with women.

If you’ve already checked out my free content, read my books, and have trust in me and my approach, then I believe this course is worth the investment. I understand that it can be challenging to make a buying decision without a money-back guarantee, but I’m confident that the information and support provided in the course will be incredibly valuable to you.

So, if you’re ready to take the next step in improving your dating skills and willing to put in the effort, I encourage you to consider enrolling in INTROVERT DATING SUCCESS. Once you have access to the content and community, I believe you’ll see that the value is worth the investment

Got more questions? Consider scheduling a call with me today!